Trial By Fire or Dark Night of the Soul

  • I lived through the apartheid changeover in South Africa. In fact I turned 16 the day after the famous 1994 elections. When I entered high school, I went into a racially-integrated school because racial segregation had been lifted.

    Over the past nearly 23 years I’ve watched my country and people evolve… and it has gotten ugly, largely because people are determined to hold onto the ugliness and hatred.

  • An argument for patience

    Since achieving enlightenment in December 2016, barriers have dropped away that have enabled me to see the final connections on stuff that I just could never before.

    Like I knew the details of the morphic field, but I couldn't quite see actually how it worked and the mechanisms and how it really all fit in. Now however I can put my mind there and within a while the answer just comes.

    So at the same time, spiritual concepts have really made sense and I've really been able to apply them as tools. Concepts like faith, appreciation, patience, compassion, humility.

    The most fascinating of these though is patience...

    I've been actively applying patience as a tool.

  • An incredible forgiveness release

    What an incredibly powerful and healing day yesterday (16 May 2017) was. In the space of an hour, we reconciled 17 years of pain, abandonment and misunderstanding and achieved a complete forgiveness release among all the parties involved.

    Yes - in an hour, really. Then we went out for milkshakes as a family.

  • It often seems like the more you evolve spiritually, the more people seem to misunderstand you.

    So why does humility in spirituality often get labeled as arrogance?

  • Use the Ask For Forgiveness Process when you need to apologise to someone, and get their absolution.

  • The Ask for Forgiveness to be Chosen for You is an exercise you can turn to when you are not achieving forgiveness in any other way. It's so effective that you may want to skip straight to it in future though.

  • So I have really felt like Alice in Wonderland over the past month… the word is wow. We stop there cos no word is big enough to describe what I’ve experienced and seen. A small one will have to do.

  • Basically everyone is battling with money right now

    So this isn’t a fun post, and it’s not the kind of good news post we want, but it is the truth.

    If you ask around, July & August were horrible months for just about everyone, with a lot being pushed to extremes, like actually becoming homeless.

    It’s not pretty, and it doesn’t look to be getting much prettier as we go forward.

    If you think about it, survival issues are our best hope for a catalyst that triggers global change and awareness - and everyone is in a hurry for stuff to change now. A collapse of the economic system fits those criteria - it can happen quickly, very quickly in fact.

    How quickly? If we simply hit two or three months running where over 40% of people could not pay their debt, that could be enough to put a massive dent in the system. The knock-on effect would be staggering in its magnitude.

  • Battling with Cognitive Dissonance

    The conflict between what you know spiritually (internal) and your experienced reality (external)

    Cognitive dissonance is a constant struggle for us on the spiritual journey, and it's a more constant companion as you surge higher.

  • Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

    As empaths we seem to magnetically attract narcissists.

    I'm still in two minds as to whether there is a twin flame push pull aspect at play here: the purity of the empath further escalates the negativity of the narcissist maybe?

  • The Big Picture Forgiveness Exercise for Past Life Issues is great when you are working directly on past life issues, or when you do not know where the forgiveness block you are having is.

  • The CHILLS Mechanisms of Ego Question Wheel is an easy-to-use question set to help you deal with ego issues in yourself and others.

  • The CHILLS Model of Understanding Ego Mechanisms is an easy to recall mnemonic to help you simplify Ego: Control, Hierarchy, Identity & Individuation, Lack, Love & Separation.

  • Christ Consciousness & the Religious Overtones for the Shift

    Like so many other lightworkers, I come from a strict religious background.

    My parents used to make us go to church sometimes every day of the week. My mom was in the choir and the church secretary. I grew to hate Christianity.

  • Coaching Strategy for:

    • Physical System Support
    • Practical Functionality (Getting stuff done day to day)

    This will help you face the things you need to do, like work and focus and meetings and chores.

  • On 8 August 2016, we saw Lion’s Gate Portal, a release of the cosmic unity energy onto Earth’s plane.

    Since then however, for spiritual peeps around the world, there has been a sense of coming back down to Earth, hitting reality and feeling decidedly human again – after years of being on a non-stop spiritual surge.

    You’re not alone if you’ve been feeling this, and you’re definitely not alone if you’re battling to cope with moving back into human and secular reality.

  • Common Ego Traps looks at some of the more frequent ways that Ego tries to trip you up on a spiritual or personal growth journey.

  • The Confession Exercise allows you to work together with someone else to forgive in a conversation, and work on both of your 'stuff' at the same time.

  • We're definitely butting heads with control structures and 3D souls who want to try and control what they see and cannot understand.

    Luckily yesterday I did see a lot of stuff lift in that regard, and things are starting to flow more easily.

  • Converting someone to your way of thinking or faith by conversion

    The whole idea that you automatically want to convert someone to your way of thinking because you're spiritual is somewhat annoying.

    As is the idea that you want to change someone's mind just because you're talking to them.

    Also, I find people glamorize their journeys, because it is the most exciting thing that's happened to them.

    Truth is that most people's journeys compared to ours are quite boring. Their lives and issues and experiences are quite boring.

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