A chart of Universal & Unmet Core Life Needs.

Use this chart to help you identify core life needs when you are working with your past, Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD), childhood neglect, codependency and attachment theory.

Walking your Talk & the Courage of your Convictions

So the theme for almost everyone I’m speaking to right now is, or is becoming, walking your talk. Pretty much what I’ve been talking about the last while LOL :)

It’s huge isn’t it? That fear of what people will think of you.

Will they think you’re nuts? Will they start avoiding you? Will they - horror of horrors - think you’re arrogant?

We paralyze ourselves ourselves into inadequacy with political correctness

What’s the euphemism you use for male and female genitalia? What catchphrase do you use when going to the loo?

The idea of couching things when we say them, in order not to offend the sensibilities of others, is VERY entrenched in us. The whole of human relationships is about making sure that people approve of you so that they stay in your life.

In this article, we look at the fact that we’re creating a world for children and why it can only make us egotistical and unhappy over the long term.

In We're Designed to Notice Problems & Complain, we look at how the human mind works - and why it's so much easier for people to complain and notice problems.

What are your plans for Lent 2018?

So if you don't know what Lent is, it's 40 days of voluntary sacrifice of something to mark Jesus's 40 days in the desert.

This year, Lent runs from Wednesday 14 February, to Thursday 29 March, the day before Good Friday.

The rules of Lent are that you sacrifice or give up something that will be difficult for you to give up.

There's no point if you don't feel the sacrifice.

In What Atheists Don’t Understand About God we look at some of the more common mistakes atheists make in their approach when discussing God.

When you first start working with statements, and releasing issues on the cognitive level, it feels like very slow going at first…. I mean you’re answering question after question, bringing statement after statement to awareness, but it doesn’t feel like you’ve made any progress.

What is Gaslighting?

Gaslighting has become a more-commonly used term over the past few years, and refers to the behaviors that some people engage in, that leaves you feeling insecure, stupid, inadequate, and just generally inferior... or like you might be going mad!

What is God and understanding God as ALL-that-is

An analogy to help you understand God as ALL-that-is

People have difficulty with the technical concepts around what God is; this analogy will help you understand God as ALL-that-is.

A human is a single being, but when you zoom in closer, you quickly realize that the human body is nothing more than a massive collection of billions of cells working in unified harmony.

Each cell contains the whole of the larger being, in that it contains DNA and RNA, and therefore could be used to clone a complete new body.

So each cell is a miniature but complete and separated version or image of the whole human being.

There was a really interesting experiment done a few years back that shows how DNA immediately affects the environment around us by pulling atomic elements like photons into a holding pattern.

Effectively, what is happening is that Source is sending microwave particles of light and energy from the sun with all these storms, burst and flares.

Have you ever wondered how forgiveness works? And what "hell" is?

Lol I wonder about these things all the time, clearly ;) The answer, as always, is fascinating...

Again it's about different layers and roles in the cosmos, and one of the roles of the Gods is to hold unresolved emotion.

What is Love? We tend to think of love as being a thing in and of itself, when really love is a catch all and collective term for a whole bunch of expectations and behaviors.

We do this in language - codify and simplify ideas down to single words, like saying daisy instead of small yellow or white flower with twenty or more oval petals that grows a few cm off the ground.

As we come off the end of the big part of the shift and we adapt back into secular life and reality, how are you having to adjust yourself for the people around you - in order to fit in?

One of the things you experience firsthand in healing and development work - but don't often hear about - is the fact that you get greater clarity - thinking, understanding and knowing become easier, and you become noticeably smarter.

Are you tempering the intelligence you've gained?

What to do and expect in the coming period between 29 May 2017 - 19 September 2017

Okay so the same question from a lot of folks… what to do and expect the coming period. Especially for Twin Flames.

Here’s the overview - save this post!!!

Whether or not you like it, your children will most likely be exposed to drugs at some point in their lives.

What do you do when your child does try drugs and has a bad trip, and what can you expect to face?

Retrenchment, even if you have voluntarily agreed to go through with it, is a horrible experience. And the only thing worse than being retrenched is having to stand in front of people and retrench them.

Whether or not you’re expecting to hear it, the news that you’ve been retrenched hits you like a sucker punch, usually in the stomach and around the chest region. If you’re one of the unluckier ones, it can feel like your whole body has been slammed into a brick wall.

What you’re not expecting about marketing a spiritual, personal development or healing business

In my former life, before I was a loud, ballsy, offensive teacher and healer LOL, I was a marketing aficionado.

Naturally, I thought that when I delved out into the teaching and healing world, that I would be able to translate my knowledge and success into a parallel success in this market.

LOL… I thoroughly saw my ass with that ;)

Luckily I have a GREAT of a sense of humor when it comes to failure, trials and shifting... so here we are to unpack the unique aspects of spiritual marketing you’re NOT expecting.

So this theme has really been prevalent the past few days… giving up and what’s the point?

Why does your life matter and why does all of this difficult stuff that you’re going through matter?

How does it make a difference?

When you’re feeling like crap, don’t personalise it!

When you personalise you grab onto the pain and linger on it; you keep mulling the thought over and over in your head.