Ego, Desire, Loss & Sacrifice

  • The ego or spiritual journey has as one of its goals that you accept death, the transience of life.

    This is one of the more vague pieces of the puzzle that doesn't readily make sense.

  • An argument for patience

    Since achieving enlightenment in December 2016, barriers have dropped away that have enabled me to see the final connections on stuff that I just could never before.

    Like I knew the details of the morphic field, but I couldn't quite see actually how it worked and the mechanisms and how it really all fit in. Now however I can put my mind there and within a while the answer just comes.

    So at the same time, spiritual concepts have really made sense and I've really been able to apply them as tools. Concepts like faith, appreciation, patience, compassion, humility.

    The most fascinating of these though is patience...

    I've been actively applying patience as a tool.

  • An incredible forgiveness release

    What an incredibly powerful and healing day yesterday (16 May 2017) was. In the space of an hour, we reconciled 17 years of pain, abandonment and misunderstanding and achieved a complete forgiveness release among all the parties involved.

    Yes - in an hour, really. Then we went out for milkshakes as a family.

  • With so much anger in the air, thought I'd rattle out a post on anger and healing.

  • It often seems like the more you evolve spiritually, the more people seem to misunderstand you.

    So why does humility in spirituality often get labeled as arrogance?

  • Use the Ask For Forgiveness Process when you need to apologise to someone, and get their absolution.

  • The Ask for Forgiveness to be Chosen for You is an exercise you can turn to when you are not achieving forgiveness in any other way. It's so effective that you may want to skip straight to it in future though.

  • So I have really felt like Alice in Wonderland over the past month… the word is wow. We stop there cos no word is big enough to describe what I’ve experienced and seen. A small one will have to do.

  • Basically everyone is battling with money right now

    So this isn’t a fun post, and it’s not the kind of good news post we want, but it is the truth.

    If you ask around, July & August were horrible months for just about everyone, with a lot being pushed to extremes, like actually becoming homeless.

    It’s not pretty, and it doesn’t look to be getting much prettier as we go forward.

    If you think about it, survival issues are our best hope for a catalyst that triggers global change and awareness - and everyone is in a hurry for stuff to change now. A collapse of the economic system fits those criteria - it can happen quickly, very quickly in fact.

    How quickly? If we simply hit two or three months running where over 40% of people could not pay their debt, that could be enough to put a massive dent in the system. The knock-on effect would be staggering in its magnitude.

  • Battling with Cognitive Dissonance

    The conflict between what you know spiritually (internal) and your experienced reality (external)

    Cognitive dissonance is a constant struggle for us on the spiritual journey, and it's a more constant companion as you surge higher.

  • Use the 'Be Greatful' Gratitude Exercise to gratefully daydream your way into a better life.

  • In beauty is in the eye of the beholder, we take an honest look at the trend of fat and skinny shaming that is so prevalent on social media nowadays.

    It’s really difficult not to go onto a social media site nowadays and not see at least one post where someone is pointing out that the person in the picture is too thin or too fat… or pointing out a part of a (usually female) body, that honestly is usually far from visually appealing, and harping on about how this is definitely sexy.

    It’s also impossible to pick up a woman’s magazine and not see some sort of ‘who looked good and who looked terrible’ type of feature, often analysing the usually more wobbly bits of some celebrity’s body.

    Most often, these kinds of activities are often known as fat shaming, and involve pointing out how bad or less-than-perfect most women’s bodies are. In extreme cases the posts will attack obesity head on in a very denigrating manner.

  • Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

    As empaths we seem to magnetically attract narcissists.

    I'm still in two minds as to whether there is a twin flame push pull aspect at play here: the purity of the empath further escalates the negativity of the narcissist maybe?

  • The Big Picture Forgiveness Exercise for Past Life Issues is great when you are working directly on past life issues, or when you do not know where the forgiveness block you are having is.

  • After a death or breakup, what causes that grief, why does it hurt so much and what can you do to alleviate it?

    If you’ve experienced the loss of a person, either through death or the breakup of a relationship, you’ll know that you’re often left with a whole bunch of unanswered questions, and this horrible, dreadful heavy feeling that you can’t quite pinpoint and don’t know how to begin releasing.

  • The CHILLS Mechanisms of Ego Question Wheel is an easy-to-use question set to help you deal with Ego issues in yourself and others.

  • The CHILLS Model of Understanding Ego Mechanisms is an easy to recall mnemonic to help you simplify Ego: Control, Hierarchy, Identity & Individuation, Lack, Love & Separation.

  • Christ Consciousness & the Religious Overtones for the Shift

    Like so many other lightworkers, I come from a strict religious background.

    My parents used to make us go to church sometimes every day of the week. My mom was in the choir and the church secretary. I grew to hate Christianity.

  • Coaching Strategy for:

    • Physical System Support
    • Practical Functionality (Getting stuff done day to day)

    This will help you face the things you need to do, like work and focus and meetings and chores.

  • On 8 August 2016, we saw Lion’s Gate Portal, a release of the cosmic unity energy onto Earth’s plane.

    Since then however, for spiritual peeps around the world, there has been a sense of coming back down to Earth, hitting reality and feeling decidedly human again – after years of being on a non-stop spiritual surge.

    You’re not alone if you’ve been feeling this, and you’re definitely not alone if you’re battling to cope with moving back into human and secular reality.

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