Notes on Identifying Narcissists

Notes: Ego in society discussion

Part 1 of the discussion on ego in society - notes for all the main areas, tied to my personal shift.

Not something I’d usually post, but group members enjoyed it.

On confidence as a healer

Why do we feel inadequate to teach or heal people, and yet we still get results?

Shouldn't we be completely realised and have solved an issue before we help someone else with it?

This belief is a normal teaching block.

People seem to think that because you're working remotely, online or at distance, that somehow healing work is not as powerful or effective.

While I can't show you how powerful distance energy healing is in a post, I can show what online text coaching via email or message service looks like - and that's what this link is - a transcript of the actual client session that took place, with names changed for privacy.

This exchange took place over a message service, and was entirely written.

There are huge advantages to using only written communication - first you get total privacy, second you can take your time or do it spread out over a longer time period, third you're not rushed, and fourth, the client can go back and reread the session in their own time if they'd like a review.

LOL just think about how many times you've walked out of a session or healing or reading and wished you could have recorded it? Working online means it's instantly recorded.

Ongoing Ego in society discussion

Part 2 of the discussion on Ego in society.

Past life and karmic memories in healing

There will come a point in your evolution when you suddenly start receiving past life and karmic information.

It can be a fair shock when this happens, and often you’re inclined to disregard it. So the first rule is: DON’T disregard it.

Playing with your name

This is a fun, light tool I just stumbled onto randomly ;)

Language & Phonetics, you’ll eventually come to realize, are massive parts of spirituality.

A key marker of spiritual development, in fact, is that seekers become more focused on words, as well as respectful of their communication, as they progress.

The reason for this is teaching…. past a point, you no longer can find a teacher. From then, you teach to learn.

Understand more about the Positive Feelings that Stem from Having Your Core Needs Met.

Use this chart to help you verbalize that emotions that you are experiencing, or to identify the feelings you want to move towards.

A simple, but effective Prayer to help you achieve Peace & Forgiveness.

The Prayer for Relationship Harmony, or The Prayer to Dedicate Relationships to Holiness, invites the Holy Spirit to enter your relationship so that it can be used for your growth, instead of as an Ego tool against you.

The Release Your Fear Energy Exercise is a great way to release large amounts of fear, or fear in general. This is a powerful exercise that yields instantaneous results.

Remember Your Shifting Basics!

When Life Coaches Toolbox first started life, it started as a book (if you've seen the PDF downloads on free tools, that's it).

The point of this book was to aggregate all the primary basics and all the tools you could possibly need, with one major tool per double page spread.

So the idea was, if something falls over, you grab the book, flip it open and let Source guide you to the healing tool you need.

The reason you need a resource like that is because when you are shifting hectically, you don't remember basics. Hell you hardly remember anything!! LOL

Science is as much a religion as Christianity or Islam

Unless you have physically conducted every experiment yourself, and verified the existence of every element of any scientific "evidence" you present, your scientific evidence has no more validity than anything presented in any spiritual or religious text.

Whether you are reading a text book or a religious text, you are reading the words of a man you don't know, written down, and you have accepted them as the truth - when you don't even have proof that that author exists in fact.

Like the stories presented in religious and spiritual teachings, science (fiction) is the hearsay and observation of others who (apparently) experienced it, and then recorded it for posterity.

Shifting too much and too fast

When you do vigorous shifts like we're doing right now, you run the risk of going into shifting overload.

What is shifting overload or shifting crisis?

Basically you've been processing through emotion and thoughts so much that it puts enormous strain on your system.

You land up sick, fatigued, having a breakdown or even potentially having a mental breakdown.

This Simple & Powerful Daily Prayer puts the Holy Spirit firmly into your corner, and makes sure you always start on the right foot.

The world we live in is falling apart – you don’t have to look far to find proof of that environmentally, economically, politically and socially.

If we’re going to change the world we need to rethink certain key ideas, and find out of the box solutions to the problems we face – without upending the entire system or the 8-billion people it has to support.

So, you think you’re open minded?

You’ve got 3 chances to prove it! LOL ;)

Spiritual seekers and the manifesting money conflict

So continuing on the why we battle with manifesting money thread:

One of the aspects of the system that is apparent to everyone is money, but we can't really figure out why money plays such a crucial role.

It has to do with manifestation and focus: manifesting money takes time and focus away from time spent on God.

Stress and emotional eating

People often try to fix stress and emotional eating by applying rules to food.

If you don't want to eat because you're triggered by stress and emotion, then clear the stress and emotion away.

You won't need to overeat if you're feeling at peace, secure and rested.

And it's a permanent solution to the weight.

Suggested Coaching Strategy to Fight Addiction

This strategy has developed as I’ve been thinking about addiction as the polarity scale of free will, and so it is untested.

Two things with that: I’m really open to feedback and suggestions on improving this, as it’s a first draft.

I would also love to hear from people fighting addictions what they think of this as an approach.

Anyone who does want to try it, I’d been keen to watch and stay in touch as you do to see how it plays out as a DIY strategy.