Articles by Chemory Gunko/Amara Christi

8 dangerous myths about Twin Flame relationships

When you first hear about Twin Flames the idea is appealing - largely because it’s misunderstood at first.

Most people make the mistake of thinking that a Twin Flame means guaranteed love - a guaranteed relationship.

The second reason that Twin Flames appeal is this desperate need we all have to be special - at least to one person… The One.

In this regard, ego has really screwed us over, as has society, with this idea of entitlement to love, a guarantee of love from Divine sources.

Why are empaths such easy targets for narcissists and psychopaths?

It’s no secret that those with narcissistic and psychopathic personalities and tendencies choose their victims carefully, but what are the characteristics they look for - and how does that make empaths such an easy target?

Twin Flame Break Up Series - Was I ever really loved?

Did my Twin Flame ever love me? And if he/she didn’t love me... then was my Twin Flame real?

Sadly, there are a whole bunch of Twin Flames around the world that are waking up to the fact that their relationships were fake, or committed under fraudulent circumstances - we were lied to, conned or cheated in other words.

There's no such thing as unconditional love. So, why do we keep lying about unconditional love?

Unconditional love is a concept people love to bandy around - especially in spiritual circles, where anything that does not meet another person’s Godview of all-loving gets you labelled and judged.

This set of exercises is designed to help you chip away at resistance and build hope that you can find love again.

The Lack of Someone to Love

Twin Flames Break Up Update 2 of 2

When the first layer of this thought came through a few years back, it was just one of those nice insight thoughts. The concept was basically:

We don’t want someone to love us - we want someone we can love and are in love with.

How do we know this? Stalkers.

That’s what we call someone who loves us when we don’t return that love - a stalker.

You don’t want somebody who is in love with you, unless you are in love with them.

What is a relationship? A true relationship is three things:

1. An agreement that creates a connection of thought layers in the morphic field
2. A permanent place or space created for the partner's identity
3. A revelation of the self to the partner

Betrayal, Empaths & Narcissists

As empaths we seem to magnetically attract narcissists.

I'm still in two minds as to whether there is a twin flame push pull aspect at play here: the purity of the empath further escalates the negativity of the narcissist maybe?